Developing the habit of gratitude ( A sermon from Ephesians 5:15-20)
Maybe you heard about this monastery where all the brothers took a disciplined vow of total silence. They were not ever to speak a word; their silence was their call to listen only to God. There was, however, one exception. Once every five years, they were allowed to speak two words to the Abbot who was the head of the order. A new monk arrived at the monastery to begin his service. After five years, he went into the Abbot’s office to speak his two words. He said, “Food bad!” He then got up from his chair and left. Five years later, he returned to speak again. This time, his words were, “Bed hard!” And after still another five years, he returned for a third time. On his third visit he said, “Want out!” “I’m not surprised,” said the Abbot. “All you’ve done since you’ve been here is complain.” When we complain and grumble our words feed a growing spirit of ingratitude in our hearts that is indicative of our failure to see and discern God at work for our good in whateve...